{"id":1586,"date":"2018-06-10T14:40:52","date_gmt":"2018-06-10T13:40:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psychictoday.uk\/blog\/?p=1586"},"modified":"2018-06-10T14:40:52","modified_gmt":"2018-06-10T13:40:52","slug":"online-dating-a-psychic-perspective-by-penny-b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychictoday.com\/blog\/2018\/06\/10\/online-dating-a-psychic-perspective-by-penny-b\/","title":{"rendered":"Online Dating &#8211; A Psychic Perspective &#8211; By Penny B"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Online Dating &#8211; A Psychic Perspective\u00a0&#8211; By Penny B<\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Online Dating seems to be very much all part of the dating process these days and why not? It was something that \u00a0used to be very much a taboo thing. However the stigma that once surrounded it as a &#8220;desperado&#8221; thing to do has now disappeared.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u200bPeople are becoming single at all different ages now and there is a need to keep all options and dating avenues open. In general it becomes harder to meet people through conventional ways as we get older. Certainly if I were single I&#8217;d be doing it too! <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I speak with my Clients and a few observations have become very apparent to me, which is in a lot of ways, quite concerning to me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>COMMITMENT<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>As two people are chatting to one another and they start to feel a &#8220;connection&#8221;, it&#8217;s sometimes assumed, before even meeting, that a relationship has already been established and a commitment is in situe. \u00a0However, these people have never even met and sometimes they are talking about spending the rest of their lives together. I do believe it&#8217;s good to exchange communications before meeting up with someone and establishing why they are dating. Asking what they are hoping to find, as not everyone in the dating game these days is looking for a long term relationship and I guess nothing much changes there. \u00a0HOWEVER, it is important to remember that everything is a fantasy until you actually meet up with someone.<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><b>DISILLUSIONMENT<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Whilst someone may seem compatible in communications that can also be &#8220;fixed&#8221; too. \u00a0For example, I&#8217;ve heard of conversations going like this<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Him: What&#8217;s your favourite meal?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Her: Roast Dinner<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Him: Oh mine too<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Him: What&#8217;s your favourite TV Programme<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Her: Any animal documentary <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Him: \u00a0Ooooh that&#8217;s so my favourite too <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These types of conversations make it look like the pair of you have many of things in common and that you have found a &#8220;match&#8221; and it\u2019s easy to get caught up in this type of situation too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>MONOGOMY<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People have also asked the other to stop dating other people and coming off of dating sites altogether before a meeting too, because they want that person to be committed to them. \u00a0I have a lot of difficulty with people committing to each other before an actual meeting\/date. In fact, I&#8217;d say, don&#8217;t get too excited until you&#8217;ve met up 3 or 4 times. People end up feeling quite hurt and disappointed when they finally do meet that person as the fantasy expectations don\u2019t actually match the reality because \u00a0they aren&#8217;t what they thought they were, because you have gotten too carried away with the fantasy of the situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I feel it\u2019s important when doing online dating to \u201ccast your net wide\u201d and \u00a0chat to lots of different people and go on lots of dates. A little bit like an interview process. \u00a0That is dates and chat, not intimacy! From my own research, it seems the people that do this tend to enjoy the online dating experience a lot better, as they feel more in control of what they are doing and not becoming fixated with the fantasy. \u00a0Until you&#8217;ve actually met up and established that there is a genuine connection and you both want to commit to each other from there. Try to remember that this is a getting to know you process that has stages and phases just like everything else in life and these are important stages to be enjoyed<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>TRUST<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>I have known Clients to \u00a0meet up with someone and spend nights away with them. \u00a0Just because you&#8217;ve been chatting for x amount of weeks\/months doesn&#8217;t mean they are genuine and trustworthy \u00a0Always meet in a public place and trust your gut feeling. If a situation doesn&#8217;t feel right, chances are it isn&#8217;t and then make your excuses to leave.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>EXPECTATIONS<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>When I hear that my Clients have &#8220;fallen in love&#8221; with someone they&#8217;ve never met or have committed themselves to someone they&#8217;ve never met, my alarm bells ring immediately. \u00a0I hope that things do work out for them and they don&#8217;t get hurt. However, I know invariably they will be back, feeling rather sore and disappointed because they have fallen in love with the fantasy they have built up in the minds and have very high expectations. \u00a0When I&#8217;ve built up a rapport with someone this makes me feel very sad indeed.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>ARE YOU ONLINE DATING?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>May be you&#8217;re dabbling with online dating right now, why not have a Psychic Reading to take a look at the person or people that you are chatting to, to see what their intentions are or in fact anything to look out for. \u00a0\u00a0Or may be you&#8217;re ready to commit to someone and have developed feelings and you want to be sure they feel the same way about you too. Whichever it is a Psychic Reading can give you insight into your in your quest for &#8220;the one. Why not speak to one of our Psychics today.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">PENNY B &#8211; PIN NUMBER 6732<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>The wonderful and caring\u00a0Penny B\u00a0offers sound and uplifting guidance in a reading with you. She has many years&#8217; experience giving intuitive insight on all kinds of love readings. Speak with her directly for your positive guidance here;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/psychictoday.uk\/reader\/6732\/penny-b\">https:\/\/psychictoday.uk\/reader\/6732\/penny-b<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Online Dating &#8211; A Psychic Perspective\u00a0&#8211; By Penny B &nbsp; Online Dating seems to be very much all part of the dating process these days and why not? It was something that \u00a0used to be very much a taboo thing. However the stigma that once surrounded it as a &#8220;desperado&#8221; thing to do has now&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"btnReadMore\"><a href=\"https:\/\/psychictoday.com\/blog\/2018\/06\/10\/online-dating-a-psychic-perspective-by-penny-b\/\">READ MORE<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1589,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2,10,68],"tags":[252,232,499,588,581],"class_list":["post-1586","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articles","category-love","category-psychic-tv","tag-love-and-relationships","tag-love-readings","tag-mystic-call","tag-online-dating","tag-penny-b"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Online Dating - A Psychic Perspective - By Penny B - Latest News from Psychic Today | Online Psychic Readings Available | Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Our very own Penny B is back with another of her exclusive blogs for Psychic Today. 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