{"id":1848,"date":"2018-09-26T16:00:39","date_gmt":"2018-09-26T15:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psychictoday.uk\/blog\/?p=1848"},"modified":"2018-09-26T16:00:39","modified_gmt":"2018-09-26T15:00:39","slug":"forgiveness-changing-perspective-penny-b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychictoday.com\/blog\/2018\/09\/26\/forgiveness-changing-perspective-penny-b\/","title":{"rendered":"Forgiveness &#8211; Changing the Perspective &#8211; By Penny B"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1><strong>Forgiveness &#8211; Changing the Perspective\u00a0<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a Psychic I speak to so many Clients that are in emotional healing periods. \u00a0Often at these times, life can be a little bit on the slow side. Not much seems to be happening for them at that present time. \u00a0When delving into the reading it\u2019s common to find that the Client is is holding onto pain from their past. What causes the pain is the grudge they hold usually from someone who hurt them deeply. \u00a0When we hold on to this pain, the past situation still has power over our emotions. It still feels it has the power to hurt us.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1872\" src=\"https:\/\/blog-origin.psychictoday.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/love-2055372_960_720.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" \/><\/p>\n<h1><strong>FORGIVING<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On a Spiritual level we say that it\u2019s important to be able to forgive. Especially in order to let go and move forward with our lives. \u00a0However, forgiveness seems to be on the hardest things in the whole world to do as human beings. Somehow we convince ourselves that we are letting someone \u201coff the hook\u201d by forgiving them. If we don\u2019t forgive and let go of the grudge that hold against that person then we continue to hurt. \u00a0It continues to hurt every time you think of the person until you learn to forgive and let go. Thus why so many people have so many emotional barriers and why forming relationships of any kind. Love relationships or friendships can be so hard to do. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is one thing people do not consider when going through their emotional healing periods. If it was a person that caused the pain &#8211; that person isn\u2019t hurting. They are getting on with their life and moving forward. \u00a0It\u2019s you that is hurting each time you reminisce the situation. It\u2019s you that is trapped with the pain unable to move forward. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1><strong>What is Forgiveness?<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forgiving is most certainly not about letting someone off the hook or saying it\u2019s\u00a0OK to do that to me. \u00a0Forgiving is your release; it\u2019s taking back your power so you can move on with your life. It is important to forgive, but not forget what has happened to you. It is about accepting that there are lessons to be learnt from that painful situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I talk to Clients about forgiveness, quite often they come back with \u201cWell how am I supposed to forgive x, y and z?\u00a0It was simply awful the way I was treated\u201d and yes I can totally see their point of view. \u00a0However, we owe it to ourselves not to keep hurting ourselves with the pain of the past too. This can be even worse if there was no closure or someone did not acknowledge the pain they caused.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1><strong>CHANGING THE PERSPECTIVE<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>It\u2019s important when emotionally healing and forgiving that we focus on what we have at the present time. Yes we\u2019ve been hurt, but what do we have right now that is positive? \u00a0What do we have right now that we are grateful for? Sometimes it\u2019s hard to see, however, do we have a home? Do we have a job?\u00a0 Good friends?\u00a0A family? Do we have enough to eat? If the answer is yes then there is positivity in your life. Therefore we should have gratitude and appreciation for the positive.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes getting another person\u2019s perspective is paramount in forgiveness. \u00a0Sometimes others can see what you can\u2019t. They can see different things about your past situation just because they are looking at your life differently. \u00a0That can be trusted confidantes in friends or family, however, it can also be a trusted Psychic too. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1><strong>GUIDANCE\u00a0FOR\u00a0FORGIVENESS<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A Psychic looks at your life without emotion as they are not emotionally involved with you. They\u00a0may help shift you from focusing from the pain of the past to the positivity of the current. While also set some influences based on that for what is to come for your future. Often someone neutral and non-judgmental can really empower you in situations like these.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are in a position whereby you feel trapped by the past and need to forgive in order to move forward, why not speak to one of our experienced and compassionate Psychics. Get\u00a0some insight in your life to\u00a0guide you to shift the focus from the negative to the positive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">PENNY B <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pin Number 6732<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>The wonderful and caring\u00a0Penny B\u00a0offers sound and uplifting guidance in a reading with you. She has many years&#8217; experience giving intuitive insight on all kinds of love readings. Speak with her directly for your positive guidance here;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/psychictoday.uk\/reader\/6732\/penny-b\">https:\/\/psychictoday.uk\/reader\/6732\/penny-b<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Mystic Call\u00a0is your one stop shop, for your psychic needs!<\/h2>\n<p><em>To top up your Tarot Tokens or if you have any questions or queries,\u00a0our friendly reception staff are available 8:00 am to 3:00 am GMT on 0333 335 0297\u00a0. You must be over 18 years old to use this service which is for entertainment purposes only. You must be the bill payer or have the bill payer&#8217;s permission. We may send free promotional messages.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Forgiveness &#8211; Changing the Perspective\u00a0 As a Psychic I speak to so many Clients that are in emotional healing periods. \u00a0Often at these times, life can be a little bit on the slow side. 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