The Celtic Cross Spread for April – By Victoria Armstrong
This month we are looking at a very popular question that is asked by many viewers Psychic Today. This reading is based on a female’s love life. She was wanting to know why a man in her life isn’t taking the relationship forward. What is stopping or possibly delaying him?
Here is the Celtic Cross spread layout and the meaning assigned to each card is shown in the diagram below:
The Celtic cross spread can be used with any cards. It is not just limited to tarot cards. This month I am using the Romance Angels card deck since this is a love life question. The cards came out as follows:
1 is the Express Your Love card
2 is the Forgiving and Learning card
3 is the Getting to Know each other card
4 is the Let go of control issues card
5 is the Flirt card
6 is the calling in your soul mate card
7 is the Honeymoon card
8 is the Keep an Open mind card
9 is the Soul mate card
10 is the It is safe for you to love card
Card One
The situation is where love is being expressed between the female and a male currently around her. From the outside it looks like they are a couple in love, but there are only 3 wheels on the car so to speak. Something is missing and hence this is the first clue about why the male isn’t stepping forward.
Card Two
The challenge this couple has and there are deep soul lessons around forgiveness to be learnt here. This is the main reason this couple has met. The presence of this guy in her life is helping these hurts to come to the surface to be released. She is grasping some of the lessons and projecting the rest of them onto him. This is the mirror reflection she is experiencing from him as he too has hurts to heal.
Card Three
There has been a strong chemistry which shows that it feels like a soul mate connection. It all flows well until it comes to the 4th wheel that is missing. What has stopped the 4th wheel being put on this relationship? You can see in the card, the man is shown to almost be submissive to the woman and child. He has rigid family values and is trying desperately to uphold them. She almost mocks him for how strong his are. She sees him as a meal ticket rather than an equal partner.
Card Four
This is the past connected to this situation. You can see that the woman in this man’s past controlled everything she could and still does. She holds the child and she called his bluff many times about taking the child away for good, in order to keep a tight reign on him. He is glad the relationship has ended between himself and the mother. He has trusted his intuition about how he feels about her, however he is attached strongly emotionally to the child.
Card Five
It shows that this man sees the female receiving this reading as a fun flirtation, a distraction to help ease his daily pain around the child. He does has deeper feelings for her but his rigid family values and emotional attachment to the child will always be stronger. This is the reason he believes he can’t give any more to the female in question here so he suppresses them through his lack of action. He holds onto that thought to do the right thing as a father here.
Card Six
This is about the upcoming future for the female here. This is yet another lesson for her to learn and figure out should she hang on tighter or simply let go? It feels like she is letting go in the belief that there may be someone more suitable for her. Perhaps someone that will take things forward into a relationship and still allow her to have the outcome she desires.
Card Seven
This card is about the power the female has here and despite her past, she is determined to find a partnership that gives that honeymoon feeling. What is helping her here is that she isn’t settling for anything less than this. The connection to the man around her has taught her lots but he isn’t ticking every box right now. Her recognition of this is what will save her any further heartache with this man.
Card Eight
She is keeping an open mind and paying attention to messages from the universe and the opinions or insight from people she trusts and respects. This is helping her to progress quickly through the healing opportunities here from her past and moving her towards her long term soul mate quicker than she realises.
Card Nine
This represents her hopes that she’ll have a long term relationship with this man. She fears that he will come to disappoint or hurt her. He has competition to see off now as I see another man offering the honeymoon type relationship that she is longing for. This is occurring in May so that means the current guy around her has time throughout April to either adjust his family values. He has a situation coming up before the end of the month that will naturally loosen up his family values. This will create his half of the 4th wheel that they have missing.
Card Ten
The card is the outcome of this situation and it shows that she will get the relationship she wants and believes is achievable. It’s just a question of which man is the right one for her. It is her healing journey that is also making up her half of the 4th wheel. So there is a chance the individual soul lessons between them will create the 4th wheel if they stay open to the opportunities to do this.
Thank you for reading this article. I hope it has been of use to your own psychic development in terms of your own soul lessons. Trust that other people know the role they have to play in your life, how healing the past and staying open minded will ultimately help you get the outcome you really want in all areas of your life, not just your romantic relationship.
Victoria Armstrong – PIN 6637
The wonderful and caring Victoria Armstrong offers sound and uplifting guidance in a reading with you. She has many years’ experience giving intuitive insight on all kinds of love readings. Speak with her directly for your positive guidance here; https://psychictoday.uk/reader/6637/victoria-armstrong