He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not? – By Benedicte
I am sure most of us have asked that question every time we meet someone. He loves me, he love me not?
We feel the butterflies in our stomach when we really like that person.
We start feeling shy and asked ourselves so many questions.
All we think about, it’s him. He is in our mind all the time and we actually find it hard to focus on other things.
We wait for the next time we see that person, on dreaming about him. Imagine so much what we could do together.
What if we were together doing something, how would he feel?
We try our best to impress him because all we want is him falling for us.
Daisy Flower
When I was a teenager and living in France, I used to play a game and seek to determined with a object if that person had affection for me.
I used to have two big gardens and loved being around flowers and trees.
I used to pick a flower called a moon daisy or simply a daisy and on taking out each petal I used to say ‘he loves me , he loves me not’, un peu (a little) beaucoup (a lot) , passionement (passionately), a la folie (to madness) or pas du tout (not at all) and the last phrase I was saying while taking off the last petal was meant to represent the truth.
This game is still very common in France and many children does still play it.
This game has played a big part of my life and I actually told the story to my children who are now doing it following it.
Waiting on him to contact us.
We do make the mistake on waiting for his text or his call.
Is it a good idea waiting for him and feeling stuck?
Cancelling friends who actually wanting to have a great time out with us.
We feel even more down when that person does not contact us and we feel sad sitting down, angry, crying, etc. Also we finding it very hard to do something in the house or outside.
We then look for answers.
Trust me , I have been there too many times, I used to do exactly the wrong thing, thinking to much about him, being upset why no contact, crying and looking for answers. I do not do astrology but being a Pisces, we are very sensitive and very intuitive, we feel other peoples energy but we are also strong and positive and we are also determined of what we want.
So what do we do?
The answer to that question is love yourself first.
It took me time to learn that but I actually made it and nobody can stop me not even him.
I love affirmation about myself and that actually help me through it.
Try it yourself but be positive and feel that beautiful energy flowing into you.
I love myself, I am wanted, I am loved, I matter, I am strong, I am successful, I am beautiful, I am powerful
This affirmation will help you focus more on yourself instead of him,
You can say it anytime of the day or when you feeling low.
Set your attention on something you love to do that will help you not to focus too much about him and enjoy going out with your friends. Pamper yourself, treat yourself.
Benedicte (The Love Goddess)
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