✨ The Mystical Pros & Cons – Getting Back With Your Ex 💔
by Mystical Mags
Sometimes, the past whispers…
A text from an ex, a song that stirs memories or a dream that brings them back into your heart. But is it the universe giving you a nudge or is it just nostalgia playing tricks on your mind?
Before you send that ‘Hey, how are you?’ message or answer theirs, take a moment to tune into the mystical and the practical.
🌟 The Spiritual Landscape of Love
Every relationship leaves a spiritual imprint, some people are karmic soulmates sent to teach us lessons, others are twin flames, intense, wild and often difficult and some are simply companions for a chapter in your life.
When an ex reappears, it may be:
- A test: Are you ready to break a toxic cycle?
- A second chance: Have both of you evolved?
- A distraction: Is this about loneliness, not love?
The tarot, moon cycles and your intuition can guide you, but here’s a grounded look at the pros and cons before you take that leap backward (or forward).
✅ The Pros of Getting Back With an Ex
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Familiarity & Comfort
You already know each other’s quirks, dreams, and wounds. There’s no need to start from scratch, which can feel grounding in a world of swipe-left dating.
💫 Mystical Tip: If your birth charts or tarot pulls show strong Venus or Cups energy around this reunion, it may be more than just comfort, it could be spiritual alignment.
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Personal Growth (on both sides)
Sometimes people do change… therapy, spiritual awakenings, time apart, all can transform a person. If you’ve both done inner work, this could be a brand-new relationship with an old soul.
💫 Ask Yourself: “Have I grown, or am I hoping they have?”
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Unfinished Business
There are times when a break-up was premature, external pressures, timing or miscommunication may have split you when the love was still real.
💫 Mystical Tip: Write a letter to your ex’s not to send, but to channel truth and emotion. Begin with:
“There are still things left unsaid between us…”
Allow your intuition to guide your words. Let it all pour out: what you miss, what you regret, what you wish had been different.
Burn the letter under the moonlight (ideally during a Last Quarter Moon) to release any stuck emotional energy or lingering cords.
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Shared History
Memories, milestones, inside jokes, it’s all still there. For long-term exes, there’s a sacredness to that shared past.
💫 Mystical View: Past-life connections often carry strong emotional weight. Feel it, but don’t let it cloud your judgement.
❌ The Cons of Getting Back With an Ex
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Old Wounds Resurfacing
You may remember the good, but also those old arguments, betrayals, or disappointments. They don’t just vanish. If healing hasn’t happened, history will repeat itself.
💫 Warning Sign: If you feel more anxiety than joy about the idea, your spirit is waving a red flag.
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One-Sided Longing
Is one of you more eager than the other? Unbalanced energy can lead to repeating old power dynamics, especially if one person is idealising the past.
💫 Energy Check: If pull the Two of Cups. If reversed, you may be looking for emotional reciprocity that isn’t there.
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You’ve Outgrown the Connection
Love can be real and still not right. You’re not who you were when you dated. If they’re clinging to the ‘old you’ it may limit your soul’s expansion.
💫 Soul Note: True love doesn’t ask you to shrink. It celebrates your evolution.
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Loneliness Can Be a Trickster
Loneliness can masquerade as longing. Make sure you’re not romanticising the past just to fill a temporary void.
💫 Moon Magic Tip: Reflect during a Waning Moon phase, it’s the best time to release illusions and assess emotional truths.
🌒 Final Reflection: Tarot or Text?
Reuniting with an ex isn’t always a mistake, but it’s rarely simple. Don’t rush the decision. Tune into your gut feeling and inner knowing!
Who is Mystical Mags?
Mystical Mags is a psychic medium, Reiki Master, and modern-day witch dedicated to offering healing, guidance, and insight through various spiritual practices. Her work includes relationship readings, divination, energy healing, and leading ceremonies that honour life’s sacred cycles. Mystical Mags also teaches workshops and builds community spaces for spiritual growth. Contact her here.
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