Join renowned psychic Joanna Scott as she unveils the secrets you need to know about each star sign, this week starting with Virgo!
Virgo Personality
The Virgo starts from August 23rd through to September 22nd. They are said to be the most analytical and perfectionists of all the signs. They are incredibly efficient and work orientated, always starting something new and always finishing too. Their attention to detail is so extreme it is very hard for them not to do things in a perfect manner or perfectly. They are always great at what they do and you will also find the way they look as well as work, quite something too. Their attention to their clothes detail is never without perfection or everything matching too.
The only downside is their highly critical nature at times, from telling people what to do, to making sure how they work, how the house is run is in the best oder possible can be quite annoying for many. If anyone suffers from things around the house in perfect order, it would be a Virgo. Have you ever seen them run an untidy house?
Ask a Virgo to get the job done correctly and you will never be disappointed. It will be done correctly. They can be looked at as a shy individual, perhaps naive and reserved. They have a love of their own independent character and hate to be too hemmed in or crowded with their time and space.
They know how to get things done for themselves, but they may also have a tendency to be too introspective and might find it difficult to motivate themselves or just going around in circles. A Virgo often needs someone who will encourage them not be critical of themselves and others and to motivate them to achieve their goals, telling them also that they have done the job well, they sometimes lack this confidence.
Looking at their health, these are the only ones who analyse what they eat, how they look and how they dress, so of course when it comes to food, they want to make sure everything is eaten correctly, down to the organic kind as well as to what types of food are good for them also.
They have standards and I hate to say, they are and can be exceptionally high for themselves. They place a lot of demands on themselves too and can be at times, overly controlling and over demanding and overbearing to anyone who works or lives with them. Only at their worst. It takes someone who is confident and calm to understand their critical nature, they just like to put things straight and get things right, not for anything negative and they mean no harm with it. If there is order in their lives, they want the same with the person who is around them too.
Virgo and Sex
Virgo’s have a need to feel some sort of purity in order to make love and they are one of the least likely in the zodiac to settle for a quick, one night stand. This makes it important to have the ‘right’ conditions for making love, in the right environment, right person, right setting – Everything about sex and anything related to this, needs to be clean, romantic and not just anywhere with anyone either. As you can see their standards even in the bedroom need to be just right too.
As they are natural born worriers, including how they are in the bedroom, they will be analysing themselves too and making sure the perfection is in the bedroom and how they should perform. Ask them to do something for them and they will be there helping in every way possible. However never depend on any type of physical attraction or luxury to impress a Virgo. Virgo’s are a mix of the down to earth practical and idealistic. They wont go to the next level unless they feel the relationship they are in now is ready to get to the next stage, then they will let their guard down for the right person.
The more you worry with them in the bedroom, the more the whole situation gets out of hand and only for them to worry more which is what you don’t want to do. So worry less and you have a happy Virgo. Don’t bring up any remarks or questions about sex or the situation just carries on getting worse over time.
Rather create a fun and happy environment – put on some music and start dancing and create the right romantic feel and watch how your virgo changes. Wearing white, light blue or any pale colours on a special night with a Virgo lover will be the right way of creating the atmosphere even more. Candles, bath, massage will also help create a very different feel towards anyone they are with.
Making sure you smell good, fresh and like you have just stepped out the shower a Virgo will appreciate this and will make love making a lot easier and more pleasurable for them. Everything about them cant be rushed, anything too rushed, too out there or outrageous will upset their fastidious nature.
Virgo and Relationships
Many a times your Virgo partner will want to share their loved feelings with you and the very next, they will close up and become quite distant and elusive. Yes there are two sides of these people, but those are more about those feelings they need to understand themselves and of course it can be more about a shyness, reserved nature and not giving too much away that they do this for a reason. Its all about the perfection even how they love and what they get back in return too. They are always worried about how they act, what they should do and what they should say instead of expressing their real feelings from their heart.
However, the good side of this issue for perfection and happiness, is that they bring a whole-hearted level of involvement into their love lives and relationships too. When going out as a couple or even first date, you can trust the place that is chosen will be of the highest standard, setting and food involved too. Everything will feel planned and in control too, so expect anything too off the wall and neither do they like the same in return, just keep it safe, light and classy too.
They will love to look after, please and be the best partners possible when in love. They just like to help out and be of service, so they are no laziness here, so they will always try to make their partners feel loved and special. If they really love and love deeply towards their partner, anyone can sit back and just bask in the warmth of their caring and loving partnerships.
They aren’t ones for being impulsive, more so the ones born in September, they will prefer to plan things, organise trips, holidays and stay at home with their loved ones and family. However once the first stages of romance are over they will engage in something new but will or may start to be critical again and can be quite off putting towards their partner, just as long as their partner understands this part of their personality, they may be this part of the relationship that will keep on being like this until the Virgo feels safe as its about the safety that makes them critical and worry. Otherwise there will be no need for them to be like this.
If you are keen to have a positive and fulfilling relationship with a Virgo, you have to learn to live with this perfectionism, they can be exacting and uncompromising in their high standards and values. Their nature makes them overly critical and you might find your personality, physical appearance, housekeeping or job, is often being the subject to your partner’s close criticism literally, so this may be the topic of conversation all the time just for them to feel better about the relationship and themselves too.
At such times it helps to remember that a Virgo’s critical analysis is a genuine desire to see that you excel in all that you do, never to take anything too personally either – just like them, they want to do everything the best way.
Their best partnerships are with Aquarius, they will make them feel secure, can handle their critical natures and indulge in mainly homely and outdoor pleasures, takes them out of their comfort zones too. A Taurus makes them feel secure whilst a Scorpio can really give them protection and they are perfectionists on another level too, so they make a great pair.
On the opposite side of the worst partnerships, not always a good idea to work closely or be in a partnership with a fire sign, they are just too out there and don’t have time to assess everything they do on every level either. It would be too much for the Virgo to feel secure with anyone too ‘out there’.
Virgo and Friendships
Virgo’s truly value their friendships as a big part of their lifestyles, they are ready to put every effort possible to make sure it works– not just to keep their friends happy, but also to be of service to for them or towards them. Nothing is ever too much bother for them, if anything the more work is asked the more accommodating they can be too.
Now the only problem with this is that they can feel like they are being used somewhat during this process, when you are doing too much you forget about yourself and what your needs are being met with if any. So this needs to be an equal measure for both parties to really feel like they are being looked after on a deeper level, not just one way.
So here its an important message for all Virgo’s, you are self sufficient, but make sure you let others into your life and not close yourself off and always there for them, it takes two. The other part of Virgo’s, which can throw friendships or their closest friends off guard is if they are too critical of them and forget about their uncanny sense of humour that they have. So once the humour comes in, this lovely gentle sense of humour can be explored more and used to their best advantage too.
They are truly loyal and would never leave a friendship which is a wonderful part of their character. They normally have a lot of things on the go too, so always make sure you enjoy doing them as well as seeing your friends when you can and getting them involved too. This is what makes Virgo’s so interesting to be around, its a nice balance for everyone involved.
The more hobbies, fitness and health interests they have, the more they involve their friends too and this is where their strongest friendships are. So when everyone enjoys the same things, the friendships with virgo’s are at their best. Gentle, quiet, reserved souls with a huge heart, never to be mistaken by someone who doesn’t care, or has no heart and isn’t open. Give them time and really start to see them shine and really show their true selves.
Star Signs Uncovered is a series of articles written by renowned psychic & astrologer Joanna Scott, author of The Love Key. She is available for a private consultation at Psychic Today, the UK’s leading psychic service and longest-running Psychic TV show.
I’m a Libra. Don’t really know why this came up 🙂