When you push to hard for a relationship – this is what can happen!
When seeing people regularly on a one to one basis or on the phones at Psychic Today, I hear many times about women who tell me they are so engrossed in finding someone that they forget who they are as a person. Their identity is sometimes lost.
We all want to be loved, we all want romance, to feel loved and be looked after even by someone just amazing. It is a beautiful fairytale right?
But, when it gets to the stage where your life becomes about one person and you are putting them in front of everything in your life, this is when that one person, as well as your life, may start to become negative. I see this happen regularly.
With anything in life, there will be a time where you look at yourself and you think, “Why me? Everything always seems to go wrong and nothing is every moving forward.”
As a psychic reader who is an expert in relationships and dating, I am often asked these questions “Please can you tell me when you see positive change for me?”
Sometimes, when I turn over the cards and look at this person with their astrological year and month, I can sometimes see opportunities to meet someone new. This may have also given them an opportunity to move forward. However, something shows up more so as a red flag around them in person, which is more important. I ask them, “What do you love about your life? Do you enjoy your life?”
The question being asked isn’t one this person likes to answer, as all they want to know is when is a man coming into their life or is their ex coming back.
I suggest to them, until you have your life where you want it to be and are happy on the inside, many men will be able to SENSE you are relying on them to make you happy and can end up using you as well.
One lady told me that she always had a string of negativity in her life when it came to men, from players, to married men. She did admit however that she felt she had done too much for these men.
I believe that relationships only really work, when you have a ‘full on’ life. Your life is rich, full of things you might enjoy, it may not necessarily be your work as such but if you enjoy your friends, family and hobbies, people may recognise that you are a lovely soul and be drawn towards you.
It’s hard to believe. But it is true!
You won’t hear yourself saying, “I hate my life, I want a man, I want to be happy, I hate my job, my life is boring”… If anything you won’t be thinking anything of the sort. You will just be getting on with your life as happy as you can be. So, are you making the most of your life? Or, are you waiting for that person or an ex who is with someone else or even married?
Enriching your life full of areas you love, can make other’s lives easier as well. You aren’t solely relying on the other person for your happiness. It is not the best turn on for a person and hate to say they will admit this too. Unless of course, they aren’t ready to commit and at the start they can SENSE you will do anything for them only to run away afterwards and you never know where you stand with them. Or when people are in the same boat in their own lives, you may attract someone exactly the same as yourself. BE WARNED, this can be a continual journey if you don’t get away now from it now!
I had one lady mention to me that she always wanted to feel loved, so every time she met someone she would do anything for them. From sleeping with them on the first encounter to driving to where they lived and spending time with them whenever she could. Her time consisted of waiting on them to call, text and phone. Anything to make her situation feel better for her personally.
I also found if you change one tiny thing about your situation which impacts your outlook on things, even if you start a new course, it can change how you see yourself and your relationships with others too. I have also noticed as well if you change your friends, your relationships can change also. People may see how you are.
I know this may sound like hard work for you to suddenly make positive changes, but my question here is, what is more important, making changes or never seeing your life change to something more meaningful and happier?
Give me a call if you would like my professional psychic guidance and we can explore ways to enrich your life further, together.
This article was written by renowned psychic Joanna Scott, author of The Love Key. She is available for a private consultation at Psychic Today, the UK’s leading psychic service and longest-running Psychic TV show.
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